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Invites 101: How to Address Wedding Invitations

How to address wedding invitations: guests throwing confetti onto the newlyweds

It’s just a few months until the big day. The bridal party is chosen, the menu selected, and the cake taste-tested. Now is the time to send out the invitations — but how does one address wedding invitations? Don’t worry — this is our forte.

There is a formal way to address wedding invitations, and we’re happy to walk you through it. The questions may already be bubbling up in your own mind: Whose name should you write first? How do you tell single guests whether they’re welcome to bring a plus one? How do you invite a whole family?

All of these questions — and probably a few others — are about to be answered. But before you write the addresses for each person on your guest list, we’ll talk about envelopes. Envelope addressing is trickier than you may think, because there are two if you’re sending paper invites, and what you write on each one is a little different.

After we clear that up — or if you’re sending digital invites — you can hop to the section where we cover how to address wedding invitations and offer examples of what to include. read more…

10 Wedding Gift Etiquette Questions Answered By the Experts

Wedding gift etiquette: person opening a gift

So you have a date, bought a dress-code-approved outfit, and are ready to pop the bubbly in celebration. The last thing left on your wedding guest to-do list is probably figuring out a wedding gift. If you find yourself struggling, we have some answers!

Explore our wedding gift etiquette guide below where we’ve answered all of your questions. From how much to spend to what to buy, we’ve got your etiquette puzzles solved.
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Wedding Thank You Guide: What to Say & Cute Designs

Wedding thank you notes, an envelope, and a vine on a table

You’ve celebrated the magic of your wedding day and now you’re settling into married life. While most of your wedding to-dos have been completed, there’s one final task you’ll want to check off your list — sending your wedding thank you cards.

Let your wedding guests know how much you appreciate them being part of your special day. With this guide, you’ll learn how and when to send thank you cards and find tips on what to include for a personal touch. Plus, we’ve included some of our favorite wedding thank you card templates so you can find the perfect design for sending your well wishes.
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When Should RSVPs Be Due for a Wedding? Your Questions Answered

When should RSVPs be due for wedding: table setting at a wedding reception

As your big day approaches, all your plans need to be finalized — including your wedding catering, seating chart, and guest list. To allow all this to happen, you’ll want to ask your wedding guests to RSVP on time.

But you might be wondering, “When should RSVPs be due for a wedding?” Well, we’re here to help. Discover when your guests should RSVP and how you can encourage them to let you know if they can make it or not by your deadline. 
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Formal Wedding Invitations: Designs, Messaging, and Etiquette

Formal wedding invitations, wax seals, and a wedding ring

Your special day is fast approaching, and you’re deep in the trenches of wedding planning. You set your sights early on for an elegant affair — black ties, wedding cake tiers, and a live band. There are still plenty of decisions to be made, and deciding on a formal wedding invitation design is at the top of your list.

You’ll need to pick out your stationery, decide what to write, and finalize your invitation wording. And while this is your big day — and therefore you, and only you, make the rules — we have a few suggestions for formalizing all of the above. Below, you’ll find wedding invitation etiquette, selected messages to include, and a few sample designs that make an excellent fit for a formal wedding.
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Sending Wedding Save the Dates: Your Questions Answered

Wedding save the date: wedding invitations on a table

Newly engaged couples often have questions when it comes to their save the dates — and rightfully so. There’s a lot to it! Whether you’re mailing traditional save the dates or going with a contemporary digital alternative, there’s plenty to consider (and get excited about).

Below are some answers to common questions that we hear about sending wedding save the dates and a guide on how to create and your own design the easy way.
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When to Send Wedding Invitations, Save the Dates, and More

They asked. You said, “yes!” And once you’ve called loved ones and spread the news on social media, the planning process can officially begin! Deciding when to send wedding invitations or begin communicating with guests can be intimidating, especially when you consider all of the different stationery components. 

From engagement party invitations to save the dates, we’ve compiled a recommended timeline of when to send wedding invitations and all of your other requests for wedding-related events. Plus, you can pin the infographic below to your wedding planning board on Pinterest for quick reference later on.
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Simplified Seating: 5 Steps to Create a Wedding Seating Chart

Wedding seating chart: table setting with flowers

Roll up your sleeves, pour yourself a glass of wine, and unfurl those eyebrows — it’s time to create a wedding seating chart. Picture a chic acrylic wedding sign written in gorgeous calligraphy or a boho, greenery-inspired poster on a rustic easel. A wedding seating chart is one piece of wedding stationery that’s typically essential but poses many couples with a challenge.

Even those who love the wedding planning process take a few shallow breaths at the mention of a seating chart. Those two words pose a laundry list of follow-up questions and concerns about the best way to arrange your friends and family members at the wedding reception. But don’t worry. We’ve simplified the process with this step-by-step guide on planning your wedding seating chart.
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Black Tie Optional Wedding: Dress Code, Etiquette, and More

Black tie optional wedding: bride and groom kissing in front of their guests

You open a beautiful invitation and are filled with joy at the thought of attending the nuptials of someone you love. As you continue reading the invite, you see the words “black tie optional,” and like many others, you’re a little confused. The words “black tie” suggest highly formal attire, but “optional” is a bit vague.

Fortunately, we’re here to help you navigate the nuances of a black tie optional wedding dress code with ideas for the perfect outfit. Plus, if you’re planning your wedding as a black tie optional event, we’re also sharing etiquette and decor tips to ensure your dream day goes off without a hitch.
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16 Essential Tips for Wedding Guest Etiquette

Wedding guest etiquette: bride hugging a woman

Weddings are full of unwritten rules and traditions that guests are expected to know about, which is why wedding guest etiquette can be a little stressful — it’s assumed even though it isn’t always explained. 

Thankfully, we’ve written it all down to help you navigate the challenges of wedding guest etiquette. With this expert guide, you’ll discover must-know rules and popular etiquette suggestions so you can enjoy the wedding experience with thoughtfulness and confidence.
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